Or just reblogging so others can see would be very much appreciated and if you message me, can get you a shoutout on my blog, youtube, or instagram :).
Any amount is appreciated and a 5 dollar donation or any redbubble purchase is enough that if you message me, I’ll do a custom digital artwork or redbubble design for you :P.
(I keep my redbubble prices as inexpensive as possible which means each sale only gives me a little bit back, which I dont mind because thats for you guys)
IT’S 100% FUCKING ILLOGICAL TO EXPECT MEN TO HAVE THIS RIPPED SIX-PACK ABS AND BE SKINNY AND HAVE PERFECT SKIN AND FACIAL COMPLEXION! MEN ALSO EXPERIENCE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH OUR BODIES ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME.
I’m bringing back the REAL post. For those of you who care enough about how body image issues effect BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and how ignoring men with eating disorders or who have depression or deep insecurities because of their body image is not just ignorant, but it’s horribly insulting. Making fun of this post means you are telling men who feel degraded that they should feel bad about themselves and that they don’t mean anything. For everyone who reblogged the posts that made fun of this original post, shame on you. I’m very disappointed. Please share the original because this is an important issue.
Also raised to my attention is I neglected to add people of color to this post, I am sorry for my negligence so I shall add bonus images here of unrealistic expectations for men of every race, I chose Men’s Health Magazine because it’s extremely popular in telling men how to look:
No, guys, you don’t understand. I just got so relieved seeing this original post again that I nearly cried.
Bless the blog that brought the original back!
Here’s the original post without some of you asshats changing the pictures
This is actually the VERY FIRST TIME I’ve seen the original post, which goes to show how quickly people turned it into a joke. I confess that I did laugh at some of the absurd replacement images in the other versions, and I feel guilty for that now because I, like many, was missing an extremely important message.
To all of my male followers who struggle with self-esteem: I support you too. Even though I’m really quiet and have a bad habit of going weeks or months without posting, I WILL be there for you if you come to me wanting to talk or just vent. That’s a promise.
YES THANK YOU ^^^^^^
This applies to cis and trans men alike so THANK YOU for bringing back the REAL FUCKIN POST
okay i know i’m not the most feminine looking woman but seriously. i’m getting tired of being misgendered or addressed in a gender neutral manner by random people who are trying to be “progressive”
it never happened when my hair was long but the moment i went back to my pixie cut i started getting customers addressing me like i’m nb or a transman and i’m not sure why people think short haired women who aren’t super feminine are suddenly not cis but… please..if someone has a name tag with a female name, is wearing feminine jewelry, has obvious boobs, and has a feminine voice……they PROBABLY use female pronouns……
this is….completely untrue……you should use neutral pronouns for EVERYONE until told otherwise….reading this disgusted me deadass like…..this is the reason i get misgendered constantly cuz even “progressive” ppl have this backwards mindset
imagine being this so scared of offending the tiny minority-within-a-minority of nonbinary people that you wanna construct a whole ass culture catering to them all the while making it more difficult for trans, gnc trans, and gnc cis people to exist
–signed, a nonbinary person
god i genuinely feel for this woman though. i don’t live in a super #woke area so i’ve never even considered this as a potential problem. misgendering cis people… that is next level in the worst way
And I’m honestly done with this “bUt ThE cIsSies ArE wHy tRanS peOpLE SufFeR”
I have been actively suicidal because I feel personally mocked by tucutes. I’ve cried myself to sleep because YOU set the precedent of what a trans person is. YOU are what people think of when they think of trans people. And I look like a cross dresser who wears his gender as a clothing item because that is the narrative you push.
And I don’t want to hear this “enbyphobic” bullshit. I don’t give a rats ass if you’re nonbinary. I do care that I have met so many truscum who have resorted to drug abuse, alcoholism, cutting, and suicide because they feel suffocated by you
Anxiety-prone-human 