My father is psychologically abusive and continues to hold my mother and I under his thumb despite the fact that they’re divorced. He has agreed to help pay the mortgage on our home for ONE year… and that deadline is rapidly approaching.
I’m telling you this so you can know my situation and what I’m dealing with before I tell you why I need what I do.
I desperately need a car so I can get a second job, go back to college to finish my degree, and to help mom pay the mortgage when my father will no longer do so.
I got into a car wreck in February which completely totaled my car and put my college education on hold; as well as my second job search.
Currently I’m trying to save up so I can make a down payment on a nice enough car that will be able to get me by throughout college, as well as traversing back and forth between jobs. I’m picking up as many extra shifts as I can at my current job in order to be able to get to the amount I need faster, which is 3000$. But because I have no idea if anyone will even see this I’m asking for 2,000. If i can somehow make that amount then that will take such a load off of my back and will put me months ahead of when I alone will have saved up.
I’ve done the math and, after my part of the mortgage payments, it’s looking like it’ll take 5 months or so(due to all the other things I have to pay for) to reach the 3000$ by myself…. and then the divorce agreement that my father signed of helping to pay the house mortgage will be beyond up.
I’m so terrified that we’ll lose the house, I’m currently trying to sell items of mine to try to make a little extra money but even then it’ll only be a drop in the bucket.
Please… my dad has ruined my mom’s credit by not allowing her to make payments on time while they were married, ripped her out of her retirement fund, psychology and emotionally abused me as a child and as a teenager, is not holding to any of the verbal agreements they had.
He will not let me work a full time job ANYWHERE and if I do he won’t pay for my health insurance and, considering I have quite a few ailments, I can’t afford to pay for any of my medications without health insurance.
I lived with this man for eighteen years, I know how he works and how he thinks. He’s planning on us losing the house.
I have a rapidly approaching deadline of when my father will stop helping us pay the mortgage. If I can get a car before then I’ll have transportation and a means of getting a second part time job. Next year I’ll be able to drive for Uber as well to bring in some additional income.
I know you see tons of these all the time… but if you could even donate 5$ that’ll help me… if I can make the 2000$ goal that’ll take weight off of me and because I’m pretty sure GoFundMe is an all or nothing site I’m scared to put anything higher than that amount. If I can make that 2000$ it’ll be a miracle and then if I don’t have enough on my own I’ll have to open up another GoFundMe…. please… please help if you can…Please… I seriously hate having to keep reposting this but I need to
Guys apparently the year deadline is rapidly approaching! Please… please… I don’t want to lose my home because we can’t pay the mortgage…. and if we do.. I don’t want to not have somewhere to sleep…
I need to escape my abusive father
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