the-asexual-reaper:

projectconsent:

nonbinarypastels:

consent doesn’t only apply to sexual touching.

you’re allowed to tell people not to hug you, not to hold your hand, not to kiss your cheek, not to play with your hair, not to put their hands on you in any way without your permission. you’re allowed to be uncomfortable with these kinds of touching, to tell people that, and to have those boundaries respected. just because a touch isn’t sexual doesn’t mean that you’re not allowed to have a problem with it.

you’re allowed to create boundaries about what happens with your body and what other people do with it, regardless of those people’s motivations or their relationship to you. it isn’t only sexual touching people need your consent for and it isn’t only sexual touching that you’re allowed to revoke your consent for. people should not be touching you when you don’t want them to no matter what kind of touching it is.

for all the people who claim they can’t teach their kids consent because “they’re too young to talk about sex”

God I need this so much. Not only are there people I don’t ever want to touch me but I often feel uncomfortable saying that they can’t, sometimes I get into these moods where any touch feels like acid and I can’t stand when people do something as simple as brush against me when they walk by.

You can say ‘no’ to anything that involves your body